Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Book Review: The Almost Moon

Hmmm... I realize I finished this book before the book in my "I am currently reading section".

I actually picked this book up first, set it down to read The Historian for awhile, and then picked this back up after seeing a scary movie a week ago, and being too freaked out to read anything scary. LOL, I know, it's dumb.

I have been pretty scatter brained about reading lately, I have been picking things up, then switching to another book. I did finally finish this one this morning though...

The Almost Moon by Alice Sebold
It was hard to find a very good plot summary/review of this book. Here is what I found at a Wikipedia entry that seems pretty accurate:

For years, Helen Knightly has given her life to others: to her mother, to her father, to her husband and now-grown daughters. When she murders her mother, her life changes.
The novel begins with Helen's murder of her elderly mother, Clair. Clair, a former lingerie model
, suffers from an undisclosed mental illness (of which agoraphobia is a symptom), that only intensifies at the onset of old age and dementia. Over the following twenty-four hours, Helen enlists the help of her ex-husband Jake (who becomes an unwilling accessory to her crime), begins a relationship with her best friend's adult son, while on the run from the police. Present day events are interspersed with recollections of Helen's childhood, and her often traumatic relationship with Clair.

My Review:
I have previously read Alice Sebold's other two novels, Lucky and The Lovely Bones. I didn't care for Lucky but I DID really love The Lovely Bones. Sebold chooses topics that are hard to talk about, and for this reason, I think the way she approaches them isn't always enjoyable to read. I thought that The Lovely Bones was enjoyable despite dark subject matter, because of so many other redeeming story lines in the book.

I felt the same way about The Almost Moon that I felt about Lucky. The Almost Moon seemed very forced, and I feel like Sebold relied on her shocking subject matter more than an actual story line. The main character has absolutely no redeeming qualities, in my opinion, and there aren't really any other likable characters in the book. This always makes it hard for me to like a book.

Sebold also seems like she is trying to create more meaning and depth to her writing than is actually there. I can understand that she wants her book to have meaning and to make the reader think, but it just wasn't quite there. Basically, I felt like she was trying much too hard, and the forced effort shows in this book.

So if you decide to pick up any books by Alice Sebold, I would recommend The Lovely Bones over this book and over her memoir Lucky.

Have you read this book? What was your opinion?

Monday, April 6, 2009

The Weekend in Pictures...

Well, pictures and a LOT OF words. :)


The weather has still been very nice here, and I've been trying to soak up every bit of it before it's so ridiculously hot like it will be very soon.


Saturday was a fun day, aside from our little auto accident. (Rolls eyes) NOT us at fault, a lady backed into the side of our car in a parking lot. Then, the (insert profanity here) started to yell at ME about how she was looking the entire time. I had to try not to lose it as I explained s.l.o.w.l.y to her that obviously she was not, if the BACK of her car hit the SIDE of mine. She was a little confused, we'll just leave it at that.


After we got home, we went for a bike ride, which was amazing. I really need to start exercising more, and Russ and I are determined to make bike riding our new thing. My mom has gotten into incredible shape by bike riding. I am not a runner or jogger (though I love walks, even speed walks) so I think that biking may be my best bet.


The only thing with biking is that, as strange as this may sound... I didn't really learn how to ride a bike until I was much older. I get very embarrassed when I ride bikes, because I can't do all the things that Russ does, like simply riding in circles and rolling down curbs. I know it sounds really pathetic, but I'm still "getting the hang of it" so to speak.


We went on a bike trail that ran in between a golf course and a stream, so it was very pretty. Wildflowers were in bloom everywhere, butterflies floated around us, and there were horses and cows aplenty. There were even a couple of vultures, who I think saw my lack of skills on that bike and were hoping for a big filling Kaileigh dinner. Well, too bad for them, I actually did the whole thing!



Later on Saturday, Russ and I went to a big casino that is near us. I had never been although it was built years ago. We just took some of our money from our change jar, which actually ended up being quite a lot for change... that stuff DOES add up! We didn't win a thing, but we didn't lose much and we did have fun. :) We mostly just looked around and we each had a drink.


Sunday we went to the Biblical Gardens in Grass Valley. It was very pretty, I hadn't been there for a very long time. I used to go pretty often with my mom, and it always seemed to be closed whenever I'd go with Ariadna. We trekked out there though, and it was open and in bloom. Very pretty and relaxing.


Wow, didn't mean to write so much, without further ado, here are some pictures.


And these are just some randoms of us at a cool abandoned house :) How could the day be complete without that??

Friday, April 3, 2009

Midtown in Bloom

My friend Ariadna and I went to Sacramento yesterday to enjoy the nice weather & have some lunch. And of course, we took pictures... we are both quite snap-happy, particularly when we get together.



Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Chic Chat!

Hello All!
I just wanted to mention that we have a new blog called Chic Chat! It is five women bloggers blogging about women's issues! It has just opened today, and you should see some posts by some of us soon! If you'd like to check it out, you can find it here, or via the clever button that Brittany made for all of us! Brandi also designed a lovely layout just for us! If you like the layout she made, you should check out her others, here!

Wow, that was a lot of exclamation points, but I AM excited! :)

Hope you all enjoy!
-K

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Sunny Saturday

Russ and I decided last week that we wanted to get out of town for at least a day this weekend. So of course, where did we decide to go? San Francisco :) (I know, I know, we're so original)
We decided that this time, it was just going to be the two of us, though we did go see my aunt and uncle for a little bit.
We also went to the Aquarium of the Bay... sadly, total waste of money. Half of it was closed for construction, I really felt like they should have told us that when we bought the tickets. That really bothered me.

Other than that, we kind of just wandered around the rest of the day. We went to a farmer's market in the morning and ate some goodies. Russ and I sat down across from the water and just enjoyed the most amazing Asian pear ever... it was better than any kind of dessert, and it was huge.

It was a nice day, we got a lot of exercise and opted to walk everywhere, rather than taking the bus which always confuses us anyways. Plus it was beautiful out and everything was in bloom... it was lovely.


We ended the day in China town with a nice dinner. All in all, it was a great day!

-K

Friday, March 27, 2009

I am an Ingrid...

I love quizzes, I'm not sure why, but I think it's because they either tell me things that I thought I didn't know about myself, or simply reinforce what I did know about myself.

Either way, they're fun! Brittany had this quiz on her blog, and she was a Bette. This was fun, and pretty dead-on in descriptions it gave for me. It isn't a tacky quiz like the ones on Facebook... it was actually pretty neat :)

You can find the quiz here.

You are an Ingrid -- "I am unique"

Ingrids have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.

How to Get Along with Me
* Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
* Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
* Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
* Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
* Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!

What I Like About Being an Ingrid
* my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
* my ability to establish warm connections with people
* admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
* my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
* being unique and being seen as unique by others
* having aesthetic sensibilities
* being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me

What's Hard About Being an Ingrid
* experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
* feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
* feeling guilty when I disappoint people
* feeling hurt or attacked when someone misunderstands me
* expecting too much from myself and life
* fearing being abandoned
* obsessing over resentments
* longing for what I don't have

Ingrids as Children Often
* have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games
* are very sensitive
* feel that they don't fit in
* believe they are missing something that other people have
* attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
* become anti authoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
* feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)

Ingrids as Parents
* help their children become who they really are
* support their children's creativity and originality
* are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
* are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
* are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Kreativ-ity

Yay!

This morning I got to wake up to a lovely new blog post by Brandi of Excess Baggage. In that post she tagged some "Kreativ Bloggers" to receive an award, and I was one of them! If you haven't checked out her blog before, I would recommend doing so, it is one of my favorite reads!



Here is my award!

I am also going to put it in my sidebar, now that I know how to, along with another award that I received a while back from Brittany.

Hope everyone is getting a little taste of spring... I am thinking of getting a laptop just to be outside and doing my homework on days like these!
-K